Tuesday, September 22, 2009


This is something that I saw on the net..a good girlfriend of mine found it and shared it with me..and to be honest I think it contains UBER REALNESS lol. LOVE IT!! it was written by smart's nice to see where the fellas are coming from sometimes and I'm definitely always opened to hearing new opinions..So here goes..and feel free to comment at the end of the post..I love good debates!


The Ten Women Rules

Rule #1 Be Confident Confidence is key.

I met a girl who was a pretty girl and is the dream of a million men, but because her self-esteem is shot she gets fucked over weekly because she banks on her beauty and her pussy to keep a man yet she is “single” every other week.

Rule #2 Stay maintained to be an option

Always look great, whatever your income. It is mandatory to have your hair and nails done as a grown woman…no excuses. I don’t give a damn if it’s not in the budget. If you stop eating out then it will be in the budget. Please don't do it yourself...we can tell. You have the advantage, you are the woman. Look your best as you could meet a potential anywhere at any time. Funny thing about women is you all aren’t allowed to have bad days in a man’s eyes. Try and stay in shape and involve some fitness regime at a gym or your home. However much you hate it, he loves your body as much as your mind. You have to be hot all the time. When your single you need to look good when you run to the store or going to get gas. Not saying you have to have on make-up. I’m just saying if you have to put on a hat because of a bad hair day make sure it’s a cute hat. I

Rule #3 Fuck at your own risk

The pussy is all you got. Every dude that meets you and wants to engage in getting to know you has one thing on his mind…..pussy. It’s your job to mend the sexual attraction to mental attraction then you lock his ass in. I’m sure at this point you’re thinking I should have used a better word for it, but that’s the word men have come to love and use. Never ever sleep with a guy until he has fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything. Now if your grown and horny and you just want to fuck then put it in his life, but just know that’s just what it is. If you don’t have history with him then keep your pussy. This is the #1 killer of dating. Your friend’s circumstances are not yours. Just because she fucked on the first night and they are still together don't mean that shit will work for you. Everything is all good til’ sex gets involved. After sex they start charging you up, stalking your facebook page, sitting outside your house when you get home from the club, and coming to your house drunk late at night with their friends because you didn’t answer your phone. I’m sorry I had a flashback.

Rule #4 Know the signs

If any man shows the slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity run like the wind. Women refuse to see signs in the beginning because you just so want this dude to be the one. If he ain’t then dammit he ain’t. You know he was a little off when you met him. Everybody you meet will have flaws. The key is to find someone with flaws you can deal with. I can deal with a girl that talks a lot, but I cannot deal with a girl that fucks a lot. And when I say fucks a lot I mean she fucks everybody but me. That’s a flaw I can’t deal with.

Rule #5 Information

Never reveal too much information. An enigmatic woman keeps us thinking. Keep dates brief but your men interested. Less is always more. Never ever talk about previous boyfriends and particularly their prowess in the bedroom. The number of ex boyfriends is your business only. And DO NOT tell him how many dudes you had sex with or the last dude you had sex with. Men use that to gauge a timeframe that they think they can hit that ass. Pretty much keep the convo in general. And keep your drinking to a minimal. Give ya’ll asses two margaritas and you start telling your life story. Honestly, he might be nodding and grinning, but he really doesn’t give a damn.

Rule #6 Availability

Never be too available when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying. Don’t be so damn eager all the time. Men like to be on the chase for a minute. We like it when ya’ll act funny. There is no fun in a game that can be beat easily. If he stops pursuing then he really isn’t worth pursuing. Now if the case is you’re scheduling dates and standing him up or just plain bullshittin’ on your end then its your bad and not his.

Rule #7 Make him spend Make him spend money.

Every time he calls you tryin’ to kick it make his ass take you somewhere. A man’s love is his money and a man’s money is his life. If he takes you out and his intention is just to fuck then you will know when he stops tryin’ to take you out because he has not gotten a return on the money he spent. Now if he is genuine he will take you out and not trip because sex is not his motive. Me personally I like to wait til’ she wants me to have it. The sex is so much better. I’m sorry…..that was T.M.I.

Rule #8 Game Life Game has a lifeline.

Give it a chance to let the game run out. Dudes can only try to impress and run game for so long. After a while his true self shows. Most of ya’ll fuck before the game runs out so when he show himself your disappointed, but it’s your fault not his. Most of ya’ll know these dudes are full of shit from jump. Take responsibility for choosing to be an idiot in hopes of finding love. This shit ain’t a movie. Pretty Woman never happened in real life. Be smart and let the game run out.

Rule #9 Return Policy

Funny thing about men is that we would love to come back around and hit that ass once more for old time sake. Don't fool with him if he just got out of a relationship. It’s called "Rebound Pussy". He gon act like he wants to come back around and do right by you. 99.8% of the time he is lying his ass off. He is emotional and lonely and he wants to be held (Yeah we get weak like that too). The moment something new comes around he gone again. Let him take you out and you pledge his ass. Treat that nigga like he brand new. He gon leave as easy as you let him back in if you don’t pledge him. Make sure your fly when ya’ll go out and make sure you get on your phone and cut the date short. He is gonna assume you left him to see another dude and he ain’t gon sleep right all night. And if it was one of them 2-7+ year relationships you might as well let it go. If he don’t love you by now and ain’t tried to marry you that’s because he not. Don’t waste your time.

Rule # 10 Demand he does you a certain way

You can’t allow yourself to get fucked over. If you don’t hold some kind of standard for yourself then he is gonna set a standard for you and that is never good. Never call or chase a guy. And if he says he been busy that’s a bunch of bullshit. That means your not wassup anymore. Nobody is that busy. Barack Obama has time to love his wife and he is fixing a fucked up economy of a nation. If he doesn't call he is either not interested or interested in somebody else.

I’m sure I lost my playa’s card for this one. stand up…lets go!

WOW he went IN...i can dig it...what's ya thoughts lovelies??


TomO said...

and dudes been operating off this mentality since day bullshyt life would be mad easier if more girls followed this...there would be no more unneccesary drama...